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Gifts for Her
Buying gifts for your significant other may seem like an impossible feat, especially if you haven't been an item for very long, and you aren't sure what her likes and dislikes are. More importantly, you don't want to get her something too serious that could not only scare her off, but also set a precedence for future gift giving. It's a scary moment for both men and women since neither wants to overestimate the relationship with an extravagant gift, or underestimate it with a less than generic, impersonal gift. I'm sure I don't have to explain how daunting a task gift giving can be.
Below is a compiled list of possible gifts that are sure to please her and make you happy in the long run as well. The gifts range from those that are appropriate for casual relationships, relatively new relationships and those that have everyone setting wedding dates. It's up to you, the gift giver, to make the decision as to which gift is most appropriate for your girlfriend and which one matches your spot in the "relationship-o-meter".
The obvious choice for clothes is lingerie. This is not only predictable, but can be a dodgy territory. Imagine you completely mess up her measurements and overestimate her bust or waist? She would not be pleased and would probably demand a refund on you, not the gift. Stick to easier clothing where there is not much room to mistake her measurements, while complying with a cozy and sexy motif. A set of matching cotton, flannel, or silk pants and shirts are good selections. Most women appreciate these, since they are perfect for those lazy days around the house, yet few indulge in buying them for themselves. The top can be button-down or hooded top depending on your (or her) taste.
Along the lines of sexy comfort is a fluffy, warm, and cozy housecoat or bathrobe that she can wrap herself up in when coming out of the shower and lounging around at home. The bonus; you'll be the first thing she thinks of when she comes out of the shower, maybe even while in the shower. Even a pair of fluffy slippers is original and a great gift idea. The trick is to get her anything that will make her feel cozy and warm while at home.
Another great gift idea is a light jacket that can be worn on those spring and summer nights, when a regular jacket is too heavy. The key here is to get her something between a jacket and a blazer that she can just throw on with any outfit. This is a more practical option, while the above options are items she would be less inclined to buy for herself.
In a recent Trends and Styles article, we covered how men are beginning to see the importance of taking care of their face and skin, as it makes them not only look good, but feel good. Buying makeup for your girlfriend is risky since it's hard to know what suits her (and she may get offended), but you can always buy her some scented body lotions or a manicure/pedicure kit. She will love the opportunity of treating herself to a manicure, while scented lotions are enough to make a woman feel fresh and rejuvenated after a shower.
Scented massage oils are great gifts for women, as this allows them to treat themselves to foot massages after a long day at work, or better yet, you can treat her to a foot massage after long day's work! Massage oils are also great for hands and feet if she gives herself manicures and pedicures. Another gift idea altogether is scented oils and an oil burner, which add calming, sensuous ambiances to any room.
Perfumes or fragrances are always sure to make her happy, just be sure to know whether she prefers classy fragrances or sporty perfumes. If she usually adds classic fragrances to her stylish look, L'Eau d'Issey by Issey Miyake is a sweet, more subtle scent. Davidoff's Cool Water for girls is a popular, sportier choice for more casual days.
If you can't decide which category of perfume would best suit her, a safe but much appreciated choice is a natural fragrance such as vanilla, strawberry, or floral scents like Jasmine. Cosmetic and body product stores, such as The Body Shop, offer excellent perfumes in floral and fruity fragrances. Not only will the sweet scent make you want to sniff her neck all day long, natural scents can also be mixed with other perfumes to offer different, unique fragrances.
Yes, most women love chocolate; this one's a no-brainer. If you do buy her chocolate, opt for European brands such as Godiva, as this will surely trigger all her senses. If you know she loves chocolate, you can get her products like hot chocolate mixes (mint and raspberry), which can be found in specialized stores such as Godiva and popular coffee shops. If you know that tea is her bag, you can always get her a box of assorted teas; you'd be surprised though, this can get pricey.
If your girlfriend has an appreciation for culture, you can take her to a show, musical, concert, or performance swinging into town. She's sure to appreciate this since many women may not treat themselves to tickets. This choice will definitely show her that you have put thought into her gift and she will especially love that you are willing to sit through a show that you may not like simply because she loves it.
Returning to the sensuous motif, candles are always a safe choice, since most women like to decorate their rooms with candles. You can be more original since there are beautifully decorated and sculpted candles that are scented or unscented, rather than traditional cylindrical candles.
Hopefully these gift ideas will help by offering insight on what to give her for a birthday, anniversary or just for the sheer pleasure of treating her. Remember, it all depends on your relationship, her taste and how much you are willing to spend. Whatever you get her, show that you put some thought into the gift by adding a personal, unique touch to what may seem like a generic gift. Pleasing her and making her happy is sure to keep your happiness intact, since she may show her appreciation in more ways than a wrapped gift in return!
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